How to make sure they never ask you out again. If you do the OPPOSITE of what Pastor Jon and I have here, you should be AMAZING!11.

1. Make sure you talk badly about everyone you can think of.
2. Interrupt them often.
3. Be late and don’t apologize.
4. If they are paying for the date, make sure you order the most expensive thing on the menu.
5. Don't say thank you for the evening.
6. Talk alot about the last person you dated.
7. Text your friends the whole time you are together.
8. Talk on and on about yourself and never ask them anything about themselves.
9. If they do manage to talk about themselves, yawn.
10. Make sure you kiss them goodnight whether they are interested or not.
11. Chew your food with your mouth open.
12.  Dress like a slob. That way the other person will know just how unspecial this evening is to you.

How a person acts that first time really is a big deal, first impressions matter. Nervous? Think about some questions you can ask and be interested in what they answer. Look them in the eyes when they talk.  Listening to them tells them they are important to you. Guys: girls love to be treated like “a lady”. Hold the door open for her (not because she can’t do it!). When you get to the table, pull the chair out for her (Not so she falls on the floor! That would be very bad!). 

 If you are a Christian, invite Jesus to come along. Ask Him for peace and wisdom to know what you should ask. Treat your date with all the respect and honor that they deserve. Not only on this date but always!

 Last Word by Pastor Jon… Remember then-Don’t be on your cellphone. Turn it off, and make the other person feel like you actually want to be on the date with them. Ask good questions, getting to know them. If you feel as though you spent more time talking about yourself than the other person, than that’s a problem. Be creative with your ideas, do something different than always going to a movie and what not. It says a lot to the other person when there is a lot of time and effort put into the date.