I don't think anyone can read too many posts, blogs, or books that remind us to watch what we say. Words are powerful - much more powerful than we realize. By our words we can quickly gain respect; or lose it just as fast. 

Most likely, we don't have to think long and hard to remember a conversation we wish we could take back. Maybe we were in a bad mood, tired, or upset by something else entirely. As a result, that frustration was taken out in that conversation on the other person. Sadly, it reflected painfully on how we are really doing.

So, what are we supose to do? I have two conversations on my mind I wish I could redo or take back. Each of them are nipping at the corners of my mind. 

First, I go to God and ask forgiveness. That is always my first move. Second, I go to the individuals and own my failure to practice wisdom. Then, hopefully, I have learned my lesson. I don't say much when I am upset about a parking ticket or something else that will lead me to say more then I ought.

There is something else that has been bugging me. I have been very tempted to talk about it with people. Yet, I know there is nothing they can do to bring about a solution. I choose daily to continually take my complaints to God. It is a much safer place to go. Unless He tells me otherwise, I will stick with this plan.

James 1:19 reminds us "My dear brothers/sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry" (NIV). No where in this verse does it say except if you are not feeling well or the people around you are driving their cars like crazy people.

Be patient to today with yourself and with other people. May every word we speak reflect the wisdom of James 1:19. We will sleep better if we do.

Blessings on you.