It has taken a while, but one thing I have learned, sometimes it is better to say nothing. Silence is not my default I confess, but I have learned that sometimes it is wise.

Today I was walking my dog Penny along the Toronto rail path. There is a fence at this section of the trail that is about 6 feet high. Penny was sniffing the grass next to the fence and I was watching her. Then, when I looked up and saw not 20 feet from me, a huge coyote watching us, I chose silence! I did not point this coyote to Penny, she was busy and I just simply got her walking.

We often find ourselves in conversations with different people. We all have strong opinions and convictions. Sometimes it is right to speak up and say what is on your heart. However, knowing when the right time to speak, is important to recognize. I have learned to take a step back and ask myself if it is time to share this pearl that that precious to me or if this individual just going to kick it aside.? That is always the risk we take. Ask yourself “ does this person have ears to even hear what I am saying?” or “is this the right time to speak up?” Timing matters.

Bil, (my husband) has a saying I have always liked and have tried to apply. “ Not all truth should be spoken as not all truth is helpful”

Proverbs 25:11 says “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver”. (NKJV) This is good advice for our day!

Speak up or stay quiet, that is the question! May God give you wisdom!