“ The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Proverbs 12: 18
Have you ever stood in wonder as you reflected on what you just said? Where did that come from? And you were ashamed. Your words helped no one, especially the one who had to listen to you. Immediately the Holy Spirit is letting you know that He is grieved. I am so tired of this. How long oh Lord will I find myself in this place?
No wonder David in the psalms says in prayer and promise to God “ I said, ‘ I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin; I will put a muzzle on my mouth while in the presence of the wicked”. Proverbs 39:1 . I am not sure what difference the presence of the wicked make, for me it is in the presence of anyone. In Ephesians 4: 29-32 I am reminded that “ no unwholesome talk should come out of my mouth but only what is useful for the building up of one another. These verses refer to the people of God. I find it curious that within verses we are also instructed to forgive one another and be patient with each other. Turn from anger and wrath, and malice. I think that is because this is the driving force behind negative and unhelpful speaking. I think for me some days I am simply careless and this itself leads down dark roads.
There is this guy who lived many years ago. He is a Greek Sage named Publius who said “ I have often regretted my speech, but never my silence.”
My words, our words matter to those that have to listen to us and to God. He even warns us that we are accountable to him for every word spoken ( Matthew 12:36). That alone stops me in my tracks. May we take a moment today and ask ourselves if the words we are going to speak?
· Are they helpful?
· Are they true?
· Am I repeating myself??? ( a problem I have)
Today, let’s practice taking a breath and thinking before we speak. It will help us all have a better day!
Dear Jesus,
Thank you that as I confess my sin you forgive me. Today may I be careful to speak about what is helpful. I pray that today I will be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.
In Jesus Name
Amen