Moving on but Dragging my Feet...

  It is hard to move past a really tough break-up. The fears rise yelling " I will never find anyone who will truly love me. It feels like that today, but it won't always. 

Moving on is like opening yourself up to new possibilities that you never dreamt about. I remember when this one guy really slaughtered my heart, I honestly thought I should consider being a nun or something that required a life without a life partner. 

Then, things changed. If I had been tied to the wrong person, then I would never have met the right one. I know you might be thinking " but he was perfect". Well.... he was not so perfect if he did not want to stick it out through the hard times of your relationship. 

Take some time to really look back now. Ask yourself a few questions maybe?

1. What qualities were the greatest in this person that I want to look for next time?What bad stuff would I like to avoid next time?

2. How do I really want to be treated?

3. Were you honestly happy? Did that person really care for you in a respectful way?

4. What did I learn from this experience? 

5. What can I do differently next time.

Proverbs 3: 5-6 says" Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, lean not on your own understanding, but in all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path."

Jesus always is there for you. He won't step out on you like people do sometimes. He does not always do things the way you think He should. He does see however,see up the mountains, around the corner and through the misty paths you find yourself on. He is all wise and is fully trustworthy...honestly!